He will eventually see the OW for who she is and be amazed by the strong woman you are.
Even if he is in another state?
I was so happy with him & he was with me until she came along. I know he was unhappy within himself & blamed me. He said I disengaged from our M, I didn't, I really didn't. He said so many hurtful things to me.
I remember some emails that I read that H & OW wrote to each other & it said something about having their whole lives ahead of them & something about their families together. I don't remember all of it but they must have been talking about this last Sept. & Oct. he just met her in June 07. She flew here one weekend, 1 week after he told me he wanted D, then he would fly out there once a month until he quit his excellent job & moved in March. He even told her in one of his earlier emails that she was way out of his league, not sure what he meant by that. He also told her that she could pretty much have any man she wanted but she chose him. That was when he thought she had money. I knew better, she was working 2 jobs! Hello! Why would she do that if she didn't need money. Of course her other job at the time was real estate, so she wasn't selling.
I guess you can tell I became a pretty good PI but he stayed in the same house with me for 5 months after he told me & he lied & said he was tired of me accusing him of having another woman. I kept it quite for over a month.
