From the way my SIL talks it sounds like she is manipulating him. He told me his first wife was a manipulator & he hated it. He told me that he didn't know what love was until he met me. I asked him when he told me he wanted a D if that was a true statement & he said yes, that he really did love me. Of course at that time he didn't love me anymore.
How can someone just fall out of love so quickly???? For Xmas 2006 he bought me a leather jacket & an SUV-2007 Denali so this was not planned.