I'd like to clarify that W does not want to do anything "family" related - as in her, our son and I for about the past month. maybe she used to because she felt sorry for the whining mess that was the old me. now that i act like i don't even notice her in a room, maybe she is starting to wonder ? Alas, she is doing her own thing and I am doing mine.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF