trying to be patient and strong

[Yoyowife]

Karen and LWB,

I think that all of the WAS follows the same script: "I'm leaving you because you drove me to it. It's all your fault. If you had _______ or hadn't ___________ this wouldn't have happened." The WAS just has to fill in the blanks.

I would be the first to admit that I contributed to the problem, but it's amazing how the WAS did nothing to contribute to the problems. Sometimes my H will slip and said that he is at fault also, but then he conveniently forgets that he ever said that.