Onward but not so Upward right now

[mishka422]

Yeah, that's why I tried retail and our Wal-Mart is 24/7 so shouldn't have been a problem. Whatever!

I never got a chance today to call my L. I'll have to do it tomorrow. I'll just be Scarlett for now.....tomorrow is another day.

I've been reading an interesting book and I think it would be really helpful for everyone her the Surviving board (those of us who have truly let our M's go - not those still hoping to DB their spouses out of this). It's titled "Finding the Right One After Divorce" by Edward Tauber and Jim Smoke. Not that I'm looking for one, let alone the right one. It's subtitle was avoiding the 13 common mistakes people make in remarriage. I truly have no desire to get into any other R in the near or even distant future but the book points out the warning signs that you are falling into a trap of your own making due to your insecurities or due to not healing properly from your D. Really good read with lots of great insights to tuck away in the back of the brain for future reference.

I'm a little aggravated with STBX right at the moment but I'm probably just being stupid. Not a big deal but I know he was off work tonight. He normally would have asked if I needed him to take s13 to karate but he didn't today and I won't contact him to offer. I looked at s13's texts when we got back and STBX had sent him a text asking him if I was taking him. My son told him he didn't know. STBX told him to find out and let him know. s13 never told him and he never contacted me about it. Why? Did he not want to be with him or did he not want to talk to me about it? Oh well, doesn't matter.