Why was your H upset with you? I don't understand that either!!! Karen
Because to H, I am the main part of the marriage failing. I pushed away H, made him feel less than a man, etc, etc, and basically pushed him into OW's arms. I am at fault. He was mad at me for that. He wanted to prove to me (and mostly to himself) that he is attractive.
During this whole journey, it constantly puzzles me why H is angry, sad, mad, jealous, burdened, worried, etc, etc. Those should be all MY feelings!!!