Real Life part 6

[Starshyne]

I know you both are right. I am better off not having kids because I would have to deal with xH and the OW with them. I do seriously know that. But just to be honest, from time to time this selfish part of wishes I had the kids so that I could have something else to focus on at night. Someone to play with, watch cartoons with, someone to eat diner with...I don't know. It really isn't a rational thought, but it is honest. Not that I am saying by any means that those if you with children have it easier, because I do know that you have it much harder than I do. I admire you all for that. Just something that sneaks into my mind now and then.

The OW is extremely controling and I hate her for it. I tried so much NOT to be a controling wife. She has to know that I need to still contact xH at least now and then for another 6 months because I am still working on changing the title to his car, the house AND...all his crap is still in the garage.

I sent him a nasty tm in my anger that said this
"I thought you valued our friendship. I see I was wrong. Please get you things out of my garage ASAP because I was allowing my friend to keep his things there for free. I will be charging you $25 a month to keep them there."

He will NOT take advantage of me ever again. He doesn't want to be my friend, that is fine. Then I will get very serious and business like. He can't use my garage as his free personal storage unit. He can no longer have things both ways. The cake eating stops here.

Sara