Since all of this, I have a pondering theory. My theory is that a WAS, that just drops the bomb & leaves is really running away from life .... life .... the good and epecially the bad.

I think even though my H didn't give any warning. Deep inside I knew there there were issues. I just didn't want to recognize them. I would have never kept my sanity if I didn't have my furkids. Sometimes, I think, if someone really heard me talking to them they would think I was nuts!!!


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)