wow
I just got the same speech
we were talking about our upcoming D
he complained he has nothing to give
he will give up the business and work for nothing
and pay me nothing
he was irrational
yes he will lose alot
I told him you got what you wanted your freedom
I am here with all the responsibilities of 2 kids and a house and he gets to play
so yes they want the D but in never land they dont want the consequenses that go with D
it is sad to watch them
My H also sees me as mom..
I feel he expects me to give him something I cant
especially now with him out of the M
we can unconditionally love them from a distance
he has to figure it out
I fear he will blow everything but as Holly said, we have to let them
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow