wow I just got the same speech we were talking about our upcoming D he complained he has nothing to give he will give up the business and work for nothing and pay me nothing he was irrational yes he will lose alot I told him you got what you wanted your freedom I am here with all the responsibilities of 2 kids and a house and he gets to play so yes they want the D but in never land they dont want the consequenses that go with D it is sad to watch them My H also sees me as mom.. I feel he expects me to give him something I cant especially now with him out of the M we can unconditionally love them from a distance he has to figure it out I fear he will blow everything but as Holly said, we have to let them peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow