duke, Did not respond to the text earlier. When she came to get our son, I went in the shower so I wasn't here. Well she waited til I came out anyway. Didn't say anything to her. Saw her car outside and was waiting for her to leave and she wouldn't so I texted her saying 'I already said bye to our son' well she didn't get the text cuz her phone was in the car. So I came in the room wondering why she was here and she said ' I didn't want to leave without saying bye' I didn't say anything hugged and kissed my son again. She got the hint and left without a word. Cut the tension with a knife !
Buster,
You will want to at least be civil to her. It will make a difference later, if you are to ever reconcile, trust me. If she says goodbye, say goodbye back -- be polite. Treat her like a cousin or a co-worker.