Sara: I just feel so lonely. And to be honest with you all here, I get jealous of those of you who have kids.
Well, I feel the same way about OW as you and can you imagine if you had your H take your precious kids out on a date with OW? And then your kids tell you the next day how nice & pretty Daddy's "friend" is? Barf!!! And if I didn't have the kids I would be in another state by now believe it, but I feel like I can't move b/c of my sleazoid H. Anyway, sorry for the rant--but dern, our H's or XH's are messed up aren't they? I do think your H is seriously messed up--the OW is physically abusive and obviously very controlling. I assume the R will be short-lived or at the very least, your H is going to be very unhappy when he fully realizes what he's done!!! Yeah, you just have to keep on living life and detach from him at least until he is not so messed up. Karen
And if I didn't have the kids I would be in another state by now believe it, but I feel like I can't move b/c of my sleazoid H. Anyway, sorry for the rant--but dern, our H's or XH's are messed up aren't they? I do think your H is seriously messed up--the OW is physically abusive and obviously very controlling. I assume the R will be short-lived or at the very least, your H is going to be very unhappy when he fully realizes what he's done!!! Yeah, you just have to keep on living life and detach from him at least until he is not so messed up. Karen