Thanks for your explanation. It makes sense. I am going to try to look at it more through the adolescent eyes.
ACJ,
You are an amazing woman. You are right. They try to force us into a divorce. You have a great strength...
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11