I had my H served, even though I didn't want it. He was shocked to say the least. It has changed his attitude to a point.
Buster has a good point, Your H is a quitter to a point. He doesn't want to do the work needed for you guys to rebuild your relationship. It seems that he keeps sending you mixed messages.
Keep at DB, even if you guys file. It has relevance for your single life as well.
Hang in there. Keep the faith
Kristen
Me:34 H:38 Together 15yrs M 4.5yrs M: 3/19/04 S: 6/23/08 Bomb: 6/25/08 I filed: 7/21/08 (One way to shock him, he was filing anyway)
