Sandi thanks for the words of wisdom. I moved out 2 months ago because she needed space.....only to have OM sleep over. I see my son every single day for 5-7 hours so there's no problem there. My job really isn't a career choice, but I've been there 9 years and it's one of the top paying places where I live. Can't get dayshift yet. Wife is 22 I'm 27. Obviously I've been ready to settle down. Wife is convinced she wants to be with OM who is an ex high school sweetheart. I have a problem with knowing my wife is screwing someone else but I try to go day by day. She hasn't wanted tone with me for years, but I blew it by always sleeping and not being around. Yeah it takes two, and that's no reason for her to run to someone else but it happened. I'm not going to give her the best of both worlds and be her friend while she sees him. She still doesn't get why I'm short with her and will only discuss our son
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
