One of you, or both will be ready to walk away for good with no further contact at that point
My H is already at that point and no papers have yet been filed. I too hope this never happens to you Holly b/c it is the most horrible feeling in the world.
Take care
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15