Thinking of biting the bullet

[ACJ]

How's things going otherwise,did you decide on another job?

Still looking. The main problem is that to get the salary I need to keep afloat I really need a job two levels above where I am. It's actually only really one level above what i am capable of (as I'm currently very undervalued by my employers). There are two strands to this making it difficult. The first being that this level of job is senior management and they don't come up very often. The second one is proving I am actually capable of what they are looking for. So for now I'm looking for extra hours at the weekend and maybe in the evening to supplement what I get now until something substantial comes up.

H will be able to go the D route by the end of the year anyway,thats if you agree or he goes for unreasonable behaviour or whatever the tec. term is

That point was actually last November. He's been threatening to D me on grounds of my unreasonable behaviour but has so far failed to put in the papers. That used to be a button he could press but he can't now. If he wishes to hide behind me as a reason for his own lacking then so be it. The important people (me and my children) know the real truth and that is all that really matters.

I did tell him a few months ago that when the financials are sorted i will agree to D. He didn't believe me. Either way I'm still not going to do it for him. He has to do the hard work for this. It's his war not mine. I'm just a survivor of the battles.