Anxiously awaiting long term Patience!!

[pisces9]

believe me- i thought that too and at first i was convinced he wasnt growing bc he would play the blame game...i just listened an validated my way through that phase and then whammo- he started seeing his part. beleive me- she is growing- there is no way she isnt. going from being M to sep is huge and it takes time for the hurt to pass and the growth to occur...it may be slower bc you arent near eachother so just hang in there....you are doing great!!