Naej.....H had an affair with the mother of his child for "a while" as he puts it....I would come home from work and she would be washing her car in my driveway....I even drove her home from places...I believed him when he told me they were just friends...how stupid was I....and she was not attractive at all....the one he's with now is but the other one wasn't....

H has known about him since she was pregnant...and the funny thing is is that after she had the baby....I looked at him and asked him if it was his...he denied it....he went 3 years without even seeing him...wasn't there for the birth....and now all of a sudden hes dad....and she never wanted support....makes you wonder....I will have paternity done if we get divorced... I want to know for sure....I'm just afraid of what I will do when I see her....I understand it took both of them but she was always after my H and I fully believe she trapped him...she knew he was married with 3 kids....and she still did it....these are not good people....

and the OW he is with now was a friend of mine from years back...he just slaps me in the face with everything...and I found out everything all at once...well within a short period of time.. I believe that after he found out she was pregnant he went in to a depression and suppressed it all....out of his mind....who does that...who denies their own flesh and blood? He is not the person I once knew...and he knew if he had come to me we could have worked something out but he chose to confide in the OW he is with now.....before he told me.....tells you how little he thought of me.....It truly makes me ill.....and I still love him...why?

Last edited by Treese; 08/06/08 10:49 PM.
Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity