I hate the OW. I just hate her. How can she have so much control and power over My xH? Why does he listen to her? I called him to see if the Allstate guy got ahold of him. Because they have been calling for him. He says in that robot voice again that he would rather I don't call him anymore because he is back together with the OW. We can't be friends because the OW doesn't want us to be. What ever happened to him ending it with her because she is bad news? What about all of that? What about how she physically abuses him?
I liked where things were between XH and I. We were friends. This is what I wanted. Now even that is taken from me. I don't know why I am so upset and crying over this. But I am. I guess it was because for the first time in this mess I was finally in control and I feel like once again SHE has made the choices for me. She says XH and I can't be friends and so that is that. We can't be friends. I hate her. I have never hated anyone in my life. But I sure hate her.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08