Holly, I hope you are not standing for this. I can't remember who it was but one of the first things I was told when I came here was to protect myself financially! "Oh NO says I my H would never hurt me financially!" Wrong, it seems to be a lesson we all have to learn and I was relatively lucky. I know how much this hurts,all the how could he etc etc... going round in your head. Can you get the date changed? I think you might find a new use for your pole!
