Funny how nothing happens, and then everything.
I had 2 letters from my lawyer in the mail today.
1. informing me that TJ has said he will sign the divorce.
2. informing me that TJ has contested the temporary spousal support. A time has been set aside to hear the contest, and it is on the first day of school, for 1/2 of my new kindergarten class.

I have been more than fair. He is testing me. How's that Trusting for being weird with money? He makes 4+ what I make and has seriously not been fair during our separation.
I have paid for all of the college expenses and our daughter's wedding. He did leave money for these expenses, but that is all gone,and then some. I am living off savings and my income from teaching. He is a CEO.

I am so hurt.

Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.