"He lies because he doesn't want to hurt you. He lies because he is still on the fence."
If they are guilty and ashamed, why keep up the behavior??
I knew H was going to go on vacation and I said things like:
I wish you all the best.
Happy Birthday.
Happy 3rd anniversary. (3 yrs w/ OW)
It's always been on your bucket list to go to Sturgis, so you should go and have the time of your life. Enjoy yourself. You might never get the chance so go and have fun.
SURE......
I told him I would file while he was gone, but I am a chicken I suppose. AND I don't want to when it comes right down to it. Someone here said "let them be the one to file if and when that is what they want. Don't make it easy for them."
Maybe it's time to cash in on my 2nd DB Coaching Session w/ Jody.
Maybe I should wait until H returns and see what surprise that may hold for me.
10 days to go to the 36 month mark in my separation.
I am not GAL right now as good as I was at the beginning of the summer. My S12 has been at camp 2 weeks now and one more to go. It's mighty lonely here right now. Last night I was in bed at 8:00pm, night before it was 7:30pm I know, not good.
Thank you all......I am greatful for new friends.
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11
