Daughter thinks she can make daddy fix everything

[IRMAT]

My daughter is visting him in Georgia for 12 days..she kept telling me I am going to make daddy fix us... I kept telling her to please not do this...

because daddy right now was not thinking very clearly...told her that I thought he was a little depressed over losing his Mom and Dad..but she says she does not care.

she is going to make him let us come home... I am so scared that her heart is going to be broken again....How or what do I tell her not to ask that dreaded question... in her heart her dad would do anything for her....

but all of us know how this is going to end for her and I need your prayers....she is 13 but her daddy was her world... went riding together all the time...please tell me what I need to tell her so as for her not to ask....I know what he is going to say but she will not listen and I believe she will harbour very bad feelings for her father.please pray for her everyone...how can fathers and mothers do this to their children... I am so scared she is going to rebel

get into drugs...sex...drinking... it is hard enough not to do this due to peer pressure.. but when you also have this to deal with a child can so much harm to themselves.. God be with us... please pray...This has been her plan since she knew she was going there... I just asked and pleaded with her not to... but she is so stubborn just like her father

[Jack_Three_Beans]

but all of us know how this is going to end for her and I need your prayers

IRMAT,

No...no we really don't know how it is going to go for her. You might be right, you might be wrong.

She is 13 and stubborn, she is going to do what she wants too in this.

She is 13 and a teenager, you as her mother have to be more crafty, the old ways will not work as well if at all. Pleading with a 13 year old...

Is she a good kid? Good values? Sex, drugs and drinking, will or will not happen, do you trust her? Keep loving her and show her a good example.

I would stop telling her your thoughts about your husband, because chances are he is going to hear it from her.

You are in my prayers.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Oh yeah,

Try sticking to one thread, instead of a bunch of them, even if it with a new idea...easier to find you this way. Ok?

Its like etiquette...like salad forks and not belching. : )

[IRMAT]

I will stick to one thread.... thanks for your reply leaving work to go home have a blessed day in Jesus name.. and yes she is a wonderful csring loving child, believes in God and prayer.. and I will not let her hear me when I speak to friends on the phone about her Dad and I .. gotta go
thanks