Sawks, Have you tried complementing her when you see her? Spend a long time thinking about specific things that you admire. Especially the things that tick you off right now. (i.e. she's very strong, to not just ignore what your gambling and go on as if the M was OK).
My C gave me this advice, and I've seen dramatic results. She's probably feeling some guilt and wondering how things could ever work again.
Complementing her as in "you look nice" and such? Yep tried that and got a " don't tell her she looks good" from her sister and from her.. so i stopped..
Recently however, i did mention " is that a new top? it looks nice" .. that sort of thing.
Who knows what she is thinking.. i never got any reply from the email, which is fine. It may still come, in time..whichever.
I almost don't know what to say to her anymore, almost like it has come to a conclusion, we are friends and that's that.
Something else, she went grocery shopping, and is going to make a big crock pot of chili for both our lunches. Funny I don't remember my roomate(before i was married) ever cooking my lunches for me..
