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Sues some hugs first (((((sue))))

It amazing they mess they create, yet they are angry with us.

I do understand that you would be bothered by him sleeping in his car, I would be too, you are a caring person and that just doesn't stop because he's a jerk.

Your daughter is cute, and very smart. she will be ok, She knows her daddy loves her and that is what is important.

Hang in there, your being SO STRONG, and that is so great!!!

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I agree that it isn't your fault he is sleeping in his car. It is other woman's fault. Imagine her living happily at home with her husband and 4 children after making all those plans with someone else! Perhaps this is what comes of falling in love with a married person. They can be so fickle and self-serving. If ever someone was forced to sleep in the bed he made for himself, it is your husband.

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Nicely put! I think my H is in the process of building his bed since the financial situation he will be in is just starting to hit home.

Want to join us for a chick flick movie night?

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Hi Sue,

I'm with Piglet on this one, but if you think you can handle it, I think it would almost be better for you to drive past him every morning and just smile and wave like you haven't a care in the world.

If you CAN'T, and you think that he's going to suck you in, then you would be better off asking him if he can park elsewhere.

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(((Sue)))

Ditto on Sara, Piglet and Puppy's comments...and you are one strong lady!

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Perhaps this is what comes of falling in love with a married person. They can be so fickle and self-serving. If ever someone was forced to sleep in the bed he made for himself, it is your husband.
Except his 'bed' is a car \:o

Okay, that was mean, but if anyone deserves some mean-spirited humor, it's your H!

I would also want to be sure that there's no way that your sweet girl would possibly see him wallowing in self-pity like that...

(((Sue)))

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