looking back is fine to figure out what you can do to improve yourself, right? Like I drink too much, I should cut back, but your wasting time and kicking yourself in the nuts trying to figure out:
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or what I should have done or said
Work on yourself yes! But do not worry about the nuances of how you got there, chances are...nothing you could have said differnetly or done much differently would have changed anything...and by the way...if you did manage to figure out the one thing that more than likely had nothing to do with your wife's MLC, you don't have a time machine to fix it anyway.
Wasting time. Get out of the house, spend time with kids plant a fake smile on and enjoy them and yourself until it is no longer fake.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 08/06/0808:21 PM.
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