Thanks so much for checking in on me... you are right, I'm lucky to have such wonderful, loving sons (even though sometimes I could wring their necks!)
Yea, it's interesting that reality is already feeling enough different to H that he hasn't made the next step that OW wants, a step that he was waxing poetically about to her just a couple of months ago. However, he's not making any movement toward me, just not leaving our kids, our home and our family life together...at least not yet.
I've spent the last few months thinking about/working on what my life will look like, and how to move forward with him gone...I pretty much had some basic tenets and goals. Does that change if he doesn't go, but also doesn't want to work on our R? I don't know.
