you are getting the same advice that I would give, listen to these wise ladies.
Did we have bad days...?
Heh, yeah. Cryig sobbing balls of salt on the bathroom floor days...so yeah, bad days. All around.
Don't call, the person you want to talk to the most, the person who you think can make this all better (your husband) will only make you feel worse, and sadly, if you call...it is your fault for knowing better.
So how would that conversation go exactly?
Horribly, is the answer. When you want to call him and bitch him out or want to hear him say something Hollywood like this is a mistake, stop yourself. Or you risk losing all the progress you have made so far, like chutes and ladder, you like being back on the bottom row?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK