HI Dave --

Thanks for the thoughts...

It would seem that H is giving more thought to taking that next step... maybe a little bit of 'the devil you know versus the devil you don't know...' going on. Seems there has been a lot of drama already in their R.

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That is the problem with snooping , you never realy get the full picture.
Of course, you are right about that. I can even get a small taste of that when I've seen how H has 'shaded' the truth or even told outright mistruths to OW about things...

And I guess it would make sense that even if H is wavering in really separating and going public with her, it wouldn't mean he felt any less strongly about her (and especially the hot monkey sex I'm sure they're having...). He's still going to be professing love, etc.

It's that old enemy of mine...Mr Expectation...when I let him into my head/heart he causes me trouble!

Still coming through the heartland late this month? We're going to be taking S18 to college weekend of 8/22-24... too bad it's not the following weekend...

Hope it cools down a little over here by then!!

L


Me: 49
H: 49
M:21,T: 24
S18, S12
Bomb #1, 5/02; Bomb #2, 12/06; now sleeping elsewhere

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