The Wifey - Still working.

[The Wifey]

Hi, hunky. Well I have tried to let him know that I am happy no matter what. But I think he'd like to carry it to the "end" and then is distressed if he has a problem. I think he's comfortable being close, but far too focused on the problem he's having.

I think it might be too much focus on the problem and not enough of going with the flow.

I'll have to try and be really sensitive to how he's feeling. No pressure, just being with him. I was so shocked last week when he went to see the doc. He mentioned calling him in the morning and went the same day. He never does that.