Hi LolaL - thanks for the hug.

He hasn't really left at all. He has a 90 min journey to work so at the moment he stays near work whenever he can (which usually is mon-thur). He's here at weekend because he hasn't found anywhere permanent, and also to spend time with the children.

Also I think at the start we thought we'd do things gradually, but now I can see how much harder we have made it for ourselves. I didn't really want to let him go and I think he doesn't really want to lose me either - although he doesn't want me in a romantic/sexual sense.

When I think about it, it's been almost 8 weeks since we made our decision, he should have found somewhere by now. Think he is dragging his heels.


Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09
Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3
Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08