that is so true ((((Neil))) i wouldnt have dreamed that my H and i would be getting closer again! it happened with lots of PMA and the self fulfilling prophecy notion. i used to worry so much about the "kid" issue that it became a huge issue. if i dont worry about it and act as if it will be ok no matter what- maybe he will surprise me. i know thats a long way down the road- years...but you really helped me see that i can dream for it to happen...im ok either way. baby steps! i just want him home that would be a nice step ! ha ha ha
and yes- my RA was very hard at once point but i have really done well. i am so active and lost weight so my body is much happier now! some days still are not easy but those are few and far between and i just lay low on those days!
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