Hey Mike! Yes, I am still alive and kicking. CW said you asked about me - I will have to update my thread - I haven't posted for about a month - I hit realizations quickly once I started to figure things out. My WAW was not coming back, no matter what I was going to do. Not my choice, not my path I wanted to take. A couple of months back, she basically said there was no hope - so we are seeking out mediation and should be filing soon.

As you read, CW and I spend time together - although not a crutch, what a great support for both of us as we go through this sitch that nobody on this site wants to go through. Lot's of realizations - but like I said, I will have to post on thread so I don't hijack yours!

I was reading your thread today, the saga continues. I truly believe I am walking a much stronger person through all of this. I am lucky that my kids are older and we don't have to really see each other - that is huge in the healing process for me.

Take care buddy - I will keep reading the posts and CW will keep in the loop as well.

Funny, I am so tired of everybody telling us (LBS) that it will get better - I want to say "duh" - but non of us want to be here and would much rather work on the relationship - you were instrumental to me in my process - I thank you for that.

CBK


M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09