I get the same thing from my W. Not only that but she has tried to set the itinerary for how I spend time with my kids ("You go to ___'s house for ___'s birthday party at 11, then after that you can take them to ____ to do such and such, then make sure S3 gets a nap by 3 o'clock, then you can take them to the park....")
It is no wonder why she gets so angry when I chart my own course now. And yet she still resists the notion that she is a control-freak.
