TD- thank you for that...i am really clear that whatever he wants to do i will do. i am open to having children, adopting, etc. so far he has said no to adoptption prior to all this...and he is so worried aout my RA that he has said no to having kids...what i now realize is that i think him saying that had a lot more to do with his fears. i think i just have to wait to bring that up. i truly love him and i have always told him i want to be with him forever more than i want to me a mom. so i hope this is not an issue that he cant come to terms with- but so far all he has said to me is positive and i know the kid thing must be on his mind. what it came down to in the 1st week of our sep was that he said "we fight too much to have kids"..which was BS anyway...but now he sees that we didnt fight that much and he was very hard on me. so long story short...i truly want to be married to him no matter what.
SC- no word on the camping yet- i emailed him yesterday..so we shall see...either way its ok!
ITH- i remember the beginning for me- it was very hard..it does get easier and DB'ing really works...DB coaching is great too. ill check out your posts.
Lost and JWS- i love the outdoors- i know that heals my heart and my H's. i feel so happy and clear in nature!
thank you everyone!
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