Your H is blackmailing you emotionally. BTDT too unfortunately. Do not allow him to do this to you or to D4. He's sleeping in your parking lot? Why are you putting up with that? I know he's your H sweetie, but he ASKED you to do this. Even if he didn't, you have every right to move and live where you please without him being about under your feet and trying to make you feel bad for his circumstances. He want's you to say "poor H" and step in and provide him a place to stay until he figures it out. JMHO, but his actions are over the top. Can you politely ask him to park/stay elsewhere and not include you in his "new" life? It's time for you to have some space to heal and focus on you and D4. If there is a victim in this, it's you and your daughter. You aren't one to play the victim, but I wanted to point out to you that your H is responsible for this and not you. Now he's trying to prevent you from living your life and moving on. He just ticks me off to no end with his crap.
