Sorry puppy I though SG meant my goals for the relationship. My goal for ME is to stop worrying about every little thing my wife does and says. I'd like to get to the point where I don't care outwardly that OM is around. I'd like to be able to say yeah if she comes back, cool, if not cool
Mine were about your relationship.
---fondly, your goals guru
Last edited by sgctxok; 08/06/0804:43 PM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
You don't reply to R questions or comments -- just kids and financial logistics. If there is something YOU want to initiate (almost always NOT recommended), then YOU lead, YOU act. Don't RE-act, to her.
She's just trying to push your buttons, and she's showing you that your distancing got under her skin. That's GOOD.
Sg, in the next two weeks I would like my wife to stop seeing the OM. But that won't happen..... I'll settle for in the next 2 weeks, my wife having doubts about what she's doing, even though she probably already does
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
