My D got home from her trip (her team did sooo well )and had games over the weekend. My H came to a couple but can never stay for more than 1 at a time. My H has always been very generous with my kids and gave them some money this weekend for doing so well with their games. My D wanted to get a new cell phone with the money so yesterday my D contacted my H because we needed him to help us get new cell phones (I decided to get one too) since he is the primary on the account. Now shortly after my H moved out of the house, he put a password on the celluar account so I wouldn't have access since I had been checking out who he was calling. So last night, when we were at the store, he said the password in front of me and my D. I was a little surprised but mayne he felt he had no choice. We were told we had to temporily remove a discount from the account in order to get discounts on the purchase of the phones. I tried to call this morning to see if I could get the discount put back on but the password no longer works. I don't get it. I wasn't going to check out his phone calls...I can't do it...but this doesn't make me trust him. So here is an issue to talk about with the C...I think we will actually make the appointment we have set up for tonight. I also want to talk about why my H has issues with living at my house...or is it too soon to be bringing that up since we still have so many other issues. Also, at my last IC session, the C asked how committed I thought my H was to the M. I said 30%. The C said he thought that was low. I think that might be interesting to discuss with my H. Also, I want to discuss that my H and I are in agreement that we don't want to be doing this a year from now...so if that is the case, what is it he wants to see happen? There is so much to discuss but we only have an hour.
)and had games over the weekend. My H came to a couple but can never stay for more than 1 at a time. My H has always been very generous with my kids and gave them some money this weekend for doing so well with their games. My D wanted to get a new cell phone with the money so yesterday my D contacted my H because we needed him to help us get new cell phones (I decided to get one too) since he is the primary on the account. Now shortly after my H moved out of the house, he put a password on the celluar account so I wouldn't have access since I had been checking out who he was calling. So last night, when we were at the store, he said the password in front of me and my D. I was a little surprised but mayne he felt he had no choice. We were told we had to temporily remove a discount from the account in order to get discounts on the purchase of the phones. I tried to call this morning to see if I could get the discount put back on but the password no longer works. I don't get it. I wasn't going to check out his phone calls...I can't do it...but this doesn't make me trust him. So here is an issue to talk about with the C...I think we will actually make the appointment we have set up for tonight. I also want to talk about why my H has issues with living at my house...or is it too soon to be bringing that up since we still have so many other issues. Also, at my last IC session, the C asked how committed I thought my H was to the M. I said 30%. The C said he thought that was low. I think that might be interesting to discuss with my H. Also, I want to discuss that my H and I are in agreement that we don't want to be doing this a year from now...so if that is the case, what is it he wants to see happen? There is so much to discuss but we only have an hour. 