hey, I vacuum and i dont get rewarded with sex, your H is lucky!
and I do the laundry too.

I dont understand why sex should not be a reward.

Showing you love someone because they make you feel good is not bad.

Making someone feel good because they're showing you love is not bad.

You dont have to spell it out in lipstick on your backside, "THIS IS FOR CLEANING THE GUTTERS", but he will eventually notice a correlation between sex and doing things for you. and yes, like a dog, he'll start doing more to get more. its really just a variation of cheeseless tunnels, but different tunnels.

"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".