After much thought I've decided that I DO want my girls to be able to sleep in beds, not on the floor. But I'm not changing my time... so X can come put the girls to bed at my house and sit in the living room waiting for me to get home whenever I get home as I'm not making any promises or giving myself a curfew... think that's rude???
GIRLPOWER!!!! No that's not rude. He knew that this was coming. Why does he think that it should always be you who has to make all of the concessions? If he wants to be Dad and see his girls, he'll work around it but you shouldn't have to. You already make his life wayyyyyyyyy too easy because you are a nice person and the best Mom!