how much longer do you think until the house is done??
Fig, the last bedroom will be completed by Thursday I think. My BIL will be out of town on Thursday, Friday, Saturday..so not much will be done there on those days except maybe moving a few more things in and doing some minor decorating...
The kitchen is the pisser. It will be the last room and a major undertaking..Of course I can move in without a kitchen and may end up doing that..the kitchen may take 2 weeks?? that's just a guess.
Things are calm here now..no drama two days in a row. We can co-habitate as longer as the drama is kept to a minumum..that's another pisser..
Ever seen the movie Christmas Vacation??? "Sh*tters full", LOLO!!
I hope that gets done sooner than later....
You sound in good spirits and I am happy for you that the drama has been absent for the last 2 days gives a person a chance to grab some air...
The house is sounding really cool and though you may be a bit hesitant about moving 'back home' I think it's going to be a good place for you to get back 'to you'. Nothing wrong with going 'home' for some clarity.
I look forward to being invited to come and visit (hint hint)LOL!
Have always wanted to try moonshine...
Heck I will be homeless soon maybe I will move haha!!...
Seriously glad the house is coming along and will give you and D2 a safe haven from stress and tension...
The kitchen is the pisser. It will be the last room and a major undertaking..Of course I can move in without a kitchen and may end up doing that..the kitchen may take 2 weeks?? that's just a guess.
HAHAHAHA Mike, I am married to a carpenter. The only thing I have learned about kitchens is that they take at least twice as long as you think they will, and cost WAY more than you budgeted. Maybe yours will be different...not! Call the subs right now. Peace.
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hell, my BIL and I are the subs..Like I said, don't have a clue. I can move in without a kitchen. My mom and dad live about a mile away from where I'll be going so I can go pillage the pantry at their place if needed..I can also eat out and look at the scenery..it may just boost my PMA.
Ever seen the movie Christmas Vacation??? "Sh*tters full", LOLO!!
I hope that gets done sooner than later....
You sound in good spirits and I am happy for you that the drama has been absent for the last 2 days gives a person a chance to grab some air...
The house is sounding really cool and though you may be a bit hesitant about moving 'back home' I think it's going to be a good place for you to get back 'to you'. Nothing wrong with going 'home' for some clarity.
I look forward to being invited to come and visit (hint hint)LOL!
Have always wanted to try moonshine...
Heck I will be homeless soon maybe I will move haha!!...
Seriously glad the house is coming along and will give you and D2 a safe haven from stress and tension...
I've decided that if I can get the STBX to cooperate with me then I think I will pick up D from Daycare tomorrow and have some daughter/daddy time. I've been very busy lately and my D time has suffered because of the house, the sitch and "stuff". Anyway, D has been real clingy when she sees me, which I love but I also recognize that the reason is I'm not getting enough time with her or her with me. As I left for work this morning D happened to wake up and STBX got up with her..I told D bye and got in the car and left about 4 miles from the house my cell goes off and it's the ringtone letting me know it's STBX. I answer and she says, "D is asking me to call you" so I talked to my D on the phone for a few minutes. So it's evident that my D is suffering a bit from this. She misses her daddy. I love my D..
I'll send STBX an email soon to see if we can make this work. Hopefully she will be all for it.
Tim McGraw-My Little Girl
verse 1:] Gotta Hold On Easy As I Let You Go. Gonna Tell You How Much I Love You, Though You Think You Already Know. I Remember I Thought You Looked Like An Angel Wrapped In Pink So Soft And Warm. You've Had Me Wrapped Around Your Finger Since The Day You Were Born.
[chorus:] Beautiful Baby From The Outside In. Chase Your Dreams But Always Know The Road That'll Lead You Home Again. Go On, Take On This Whole World. But To Me You Know You'll Always Be, My Little Girl.
[verse 2:] When You Were In Trouble That Crooked Little Smile Could Melt My Heart Of Stone. Now Look At You, I've Turned Around And You've Almost Grown. Sometimes You're Asleep I Whisper "i Love You!" In The Moonlight At Your Door. As I Walk Away, I Hear You Say, "daddy Love You More!".
[chorus:] Beautiful Baby From The Outside In. Chase Your Dreams But Always Know The Road That'll Lead You Home Again. Go On, Take On This Whole World. But To Me You Know You'll Always Be, My Little Girl.
[verse 3:] Someday, Some Boy Will Come And Ask Me For Your Hand. But I Won't Say "yes" To Him Unless I Know, He's The Half That Makes You Whole, He Has A Poet's Soul, And The Heart Of A Man's Man. I Know He'll Say That He's In Love. But Between You And Me. He Won't Be Good Enough!
[chorus:] Beautiful Baby From The Outside In. Chase Your Dreams But Always Know The Road That'll Lead You Home Again. Go On, Take On This Whole World. But To Me You Know You'll Always Be, My Little Girl.
"I Remember I Thought You Looked Like An Angel Wrapped In Pink So Soft And Warm. You've Had Me Wrapped Around Your Finger Since The Day You Were Born."
I have such a stupid STBX I sent her an email about picking up D from daycare. I've done this hundreds of times(pick her Up) mbut now I get this reply to my email..
Me...Can I pick her up at daycare tomorrow? Thursday?
STBX..Yes. What time? Can you make it after 3:30? Her snack is 3:15. Her nap is 1 until 3 many days. I'd like to know where she is going to be (city. etc.) vaguely?
Notice the drama in bold
Me...Yep, that’s fine after 3:30..I have no plans. I was just going to spend time with her. We will be here in XX or maybe XXXX..more than likely XXwe may go to Zaxby’s or something....No plans in particular just wanted some time with her.
stupidity is a terrible thing.
by the way xx and xxxx are within 30 minutes of waht is now my home.
it's too bad I'm busy..being fabulous
Last edited by M from Tennessee; 08/06/0803:41 PM.
I assume she was trying to figure out what you have been doing with your time these last few weeks. And that she tought you would just slip up and tell her now.
Anyway why does it matter now if she knows? I may have miss this but does it really matter?
Glad you are still being fabulous. Think about the great time you and your D are going to have tomorrow and forget about her.
Oh and are you still out of beer or did you get a fresh shippment I need some for this weekend.
I had a feeling that might be the response that you would get just another attempt from her to control the sitch.
"I'd like to know where she is going to be (city. etc.) vaguely?"
I have a problem with this, now while she is D2 mother as long as she is with her FATHER why is there need for knowledge of where and what you are doing?? When I would hang with one or the other or both of my kids W would just say have a great time, or if it were her they would just head out and then I or she would hear about the goings on when we got back. In a 'normal' sitch one might say we are going to go and do this or that but given the sitch as it is now IMO it is W trying to get you upset and control the sitch.
