Lost, As far as Retrouaville, check with 'Sara' or 'husband' *(he has a thread going on his experience there a few weeks ago). Can you check with another local group from another city? Or a state contact?
Keeping you in my thoughts & prayers as I understand the hesitation and the fears. You are not alone with that.
Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.