Hi millicent-
Great to get an update from you. It is amazing how time changes things...every Newbie needs to realize that life will get better if you just listen to the advice here...detach, GAL, find your PMA, etc. I really think that this board is such a great way to get support and to know you are not alone...it may even help us process everything a little faster.

It sounds as if you have come such a long way from when you first were posting. I remember your first post...you were in such a state of shock that you used body wash as shampoo or something like that. It is so liberating when you finally know you will be okay no matter what happens. I am glad you are there.

It is nice to hear from you. I hope you keep posting.

(((HUGS)))

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