But S14 really needs to get his eyes checked. Can't remember that last time he had an exam and I'm the one that took the day off.
Although nice of you to do, you are just making destroying your family easy for her. Why should she be home, you still change your plans for her no matter where she lives. I know I sound harsh, but you have to let her do this by herself. I know it sucks to have the kids suffer, but if you continue to save her, she has not motivation to do anything different.
Originally Posted By: kat727
I don't think you should have changed your plans because she and his Dad got all the times and dates messed up...HER PROBLEM. Quit picking up the pieces for her, that makes you an ENABLER. You are going to be fine just stop changes your plans around because she calls. GAL hon.
kat
What Kat said.
Its for her own good....((((H4H))))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Hey Jeff and Karen. Ya'll are locked up. I wanted to post to you guys.
Jeff, man you are doing good. John Mayer is WAY cool. It's been a while and I just got caught up on you. I'm wondering when the day is coming when GBG will say those same things to me. Me not wanting to hate her. I was laughing because you just plowed right on through and told her what you still thought of her
Karen, with the new 'do, you must look HOT!! And with a bangin' body to boot.
Just don't get too skinny. I like a girl with some meat on her
Suga, man it's hard. I HATE to see my kids having to sleep on the floor and not having things to do and missing the shows they love.
I should have just let her cancel the appointment, but it just didn't seem right since I was going to have the girls there already. It just threw my timing off by one hour. I can live with that.
Today, I get to pick all the kids and they will spend the night at home. Their real home. With me. I'll take them out to eat. Maybe their favorite Chinese Buffet.
I know that D11 is going to want me to invite GBG. I will have to wait at the apartment until GBG gets there, so I will have to see her tonight.
I don't necessarily WANT to invite her, but it's hard to be rude and not give a token invite.
I think that I just won't say anything unless one of the kids say or mention it in front of her. Then I'll throw out the token invite.
Who knows, she may be planning a night for herself, anyway. Doing who knows what with who knows who.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
Don't invite her to dinner, let her stew by herself! Try to go get the tickets anyway, you never know...
Sorry if I have twisted your mind a bit. lol A little flirting always seems to help me shake it off...just don't try that with B! Keep it here where we all understand that we are in the same boat.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Yep, a great big one it would seem with all the people on here! Bikinis are a must in this hot weather and great for taking a swim in the beautiful blue water.
Now where are we puppy?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
