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buster80 #1547760 08/06/08 12:56 PM
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Buster,

Fair enough. But goals should be quantifiable (measurable), achievable, specific. Some examples might be:

1. Lose 25 pounds by December 31st, 2008.

2. Join a softball team by September 1st, 2008.

3. Read one book a week.

4. Join a men's small group/Bible study by August 15th, 2008.

You'd have to make these YOUR goals, but I just think you should try to be more specific.

Hope that helps,

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I understand. I am skinny as it is and don't like sports. As it is, I watch my son 5 days a week and I work 13 days straight with one day off. I run a printing press so I see enough books to not want to waste what precious free time I have reading. And honestly, doing anything while sitting still makes my mind drift to my R problems. I like playing guitar a lot, a band would be cool, but my schedule is way too packed for a band.


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buster80 #1547775 08/06/08 01:09 PM
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but I get the gist of what you mean. I would rather make one of my goals getting laid but that's immature and I'm looking to settle down (obviously)


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buster80 #1547784 08/06/08 01:16 PM
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The only thing that interests me is music from the 60's and 70's, having time off of work, and seeing my son. But I get 1 day off every 2 weeks and by the time it gets here I spend it sleeping because I'm burned out


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buster80 #1547808 08/06/08 01:42 PM
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suggestions please :-)


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buster80 #1547849 08/06/08 02:17 PM
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JOIN A BAND. You'll lose some sleep, but you'll be happier.

Who are your favorite 60s and 70s bands? Do you like Bad Company?

I'm a huge Springsteen - Seger - Billy Joel fan, and also love a lot of late-60s stuff. My brother is 7 years older than me, so I grew up listening to all of his stuff: Doors, Byrds, Buckinghams, Turtles, etc.

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Hendrix, cream, beatles, Zeppelin, the who, bad company is ok.more into the Hendrix and beatles, especially Zeppelin. I play A LOT of zepp and hendrix on guitar


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buster80 #1547902 08/06/08 02:43 PM
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Cool. I think Paul Rodgers is awesome. ;\)

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hell yeah


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my wife just texted me after I picked our son up and said 'it was nice of you to say more than 2 words to me today.' it is taking all my willpower not to text back something like 'it was nice of you to stop having your affair....oh wait nevermind' or something equally nasty.


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