Of course I want to tell you that it doesn't matter, who cares, don't wast the brain space, but I know that it's not that easy. Although I do think as time goes on it does seem to be a much smaller part of our consciousness. Get over it completely though? I don't think we ever totally forget. Afterall, it was a very hurtful and traumatic experience which some liken to a form of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
As my GF the shrink said, "you'll get past it but you'll never totally get over it!"
