I guess I'm scared that if I do contact him, it will start the ball rolling for him to file...sounds foolish, i know. I guess if he was so worried about it, he would have done it by now.
Can I literally do this?:
Hey Ryan,
How are you?
Jen
Too short?
JennyB Me: 29 Him: 29 No kids Married: Nov/05 Bomb: ILYBNILWY March/07 Back: May/07 "I love you, want to work things out." 2nd Bomb: August/07 I moved out: March/08 House sold, living apart Waiting for papers...
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
I'm scared that I might be wanting to contact him for the wrong reasons...i don't know.
JennyB Me: 29 Him: 29 No kids Married: Nov/05 Bomb: ILYBNILWY March/07 Back: May/07 "I love you, want to work things out." 2nd Bomb: August/07 I moved out: March/08 House sold, living apart Waiting for papers...
I think I'll wait a little longer to initiate contact with him. There is a possibility that we will be crossing paths this weekend, so I'm not in the mood to wonder if he got the message or not.
Some days I feel like 2 months of no contact is not that long, other days it feels like a lifetime...have I ever mentioned that THIS SUCKS!
I feel better - whew.
JennyB Me: 29 Him: 29 No kids Married: Nov/05 Bomb: ILYBNILWY March/07 Back: May/07 "I love you, want to work things out." 2nd Bomb: August/07 I moved out: March/08 House sold, living apart Waiting for papers...
I was talking to a friend last night, and she see H socially from time to time...she said that he has not started to anyone yet, and that he says it will be that way until the D...
Am I grasping at anything, or is this good news? Can I possibbly take any hope from this?
JennyB Me: 29 Him: 29 No kids Married: Nov/05 Bomb: ILYBNILWY March/07 Back: May/07 "I love you, want to work things out." 2nd Bomb: August/07 I moved out: March/08 House sold, living apart Waiting for papers...
