I understand. I am skinny as it is and don't like sports. As it is, I watch my son 5 days a week and I work 13 days straight with one day off. I run a printing press so I see enough books to not want to waste what precious free time I have reading. And honestly, doing anything while sitting still makes my mind drift to my R problems. I like playing guitar a lot, a band would be cool, but my schedule is way too packed for a band.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF