I need advice about my H and his OOW. H doesn't know I know about his OOW, but I do... I discovered his relationship with a previous OOW and that's how he dropped the separation bomb, listing all the bad things I did to destroy our marriage -- the first time I heard that he was so unhappy.
Now that I know the changes I need to make, I'm trying but we are sleeping in separate rooms and spends his time online most of the evenings with the new OOW in the "Second Life" game, where he has "married" her and "lives" with her.
I keep telling myself that although his month-long tryst with this current woman is really preventing him from coming back to me and our D, he is still living here and does thing with our family on a limited basis...
We are planning to go away this weekend as a family for four days -- a vacation he agreed to take for the sake of my D, likely, not for me. I know that the way this vacation turns out will influence the future of our marriage -- I snooped and saw an e-mail from the OOW woman that basically said that and that after our family vacation, the OOW will think about traveling to meet him, if he wants.
I hate her. And I'm angry with this alien who has invaded my H's body and puts all this energy and emotion into the OOW...
