every relationship i've been in that has ended I thought was the end of the world. yeah, marriage is different (better or for worse, sickness and in health) unfortunately there's no OW/OM clause. if he comes back, freakin awesome. if he doesn't, freakin awesome; you won't have to worry about walking on hot coals or what to say or what to do anymore. its like prison trying to cater to someone else who isn't sure of their position. let loose before this fully consumes you !
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
